starting over

[georgie24]

i just ended a 1 year relationship, so much stuff went on in that year. i have no idea where to start

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Hey georgie,

I read a few of your posts a coupla months back - I believe it may have been very similar to my own situation 3/4 months back. Look at my recent posts to see how I'm doing now after my 1yr LTR ended. There is hope!

Let us know the story. How about linking them up on here. Where are you taking things now?

Osc.

 

[georgie24]

my main concern is getting so control over my feelings and thoughs then move on to my new plan

 

[Oscar Wilde]

I did 2 good things:

- became a gymaholic
- became a workaholic

for about a month.

Does wonders for self-esteem and sanity. Drinking with your buddies is a really useful thing to do too, keeps up the social side of it. Don't let your life become empty in one part or another. I also had a couple of meaningless flings (ok, being honest, ONSs) which were also useful in getting my head back together.

Good luck.
Oscar.

 

[georgie24]

thanks oscar that was encouraging to read. i will def hit up the gym with fury, and as for work i already work like a blood hound, oh maybe get a part time at the mall or something

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Hey dude,

how you doin?

Osc.

 

[georgie24]

hey oscar-

im still there. im trying so bad to shack up with a family member or freind.

ive met some beautyful girls though but i havent acted on them yet

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Damn, act on it man!

 

[ApocalypseCow]

Originally posted by Oscar Wilde
Damn, act on it man!

Or don't. It's normal not to be gung-ho about meeting new chicks after breaking out of a long relationship. My advice is to chill and to rediscover yourself. Do all those things you could never do with your girl.

 

[georgie24]

Originally posted by ApocalypseCow
Or don't. It's normal not to be gung-ho about meeting new chicks after breaking out of a long relationship. My advice is to chill and to rediscover yourself. Do all those things you could never do with your girl.

thats alot!! lol first things first a nice car wash for my bimmer