"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Starting gym...

Carbine

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I am getting a membership at my local gym with my best friend from school... What do you suggest I start on?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mintxx

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get into the stickied posts in this sub forum, viz 'where to start' et al. make sure you do as much back as chest, tris as bis, do your squats and learn to dead lift light at first. start with a two day split and just learn your way around the big compound moves - (do a search). learn good form with an empty bar and most importantly: do your chin ups and dead lifts, and work your whole body.
and last: don't look for visible results more than once a month. just increase your poundages 2.5lb a week; slow and steady wins the race, don't get disheartened if you don't see the results you want at first. AND: you are not a hardgainer (this will make sense later)
 
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