"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Starting from scratch

gonnamakeit

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Some background: I am a sophmore was new to school this year and thought if I was nice to people I would eventually get invited places It never happened so what I am left with is a few "freinds" who I talk to and get along with but who never want to hang out with me and everyone else is ok with me but now it is kind of hard to hang out with them. I have not hung out with people for ahwile and do not know how to start I am very afraid of not seeing anyone from school over the summer and then I will come in next year and be screwed since I wouldn;t even be the new kid. Any ideas for how to start makeing freinds since if I just go up to people it will be weird. I sit with people at lunch but I am just sort of there for example if they leave the wouldn't invite me but none of them really dislike me. Also it is not that no one knows me am fairly well known at school like most groups of kids will say whats up to me or high five me it is just I do not know how to go from acquaintance to freind. (I am horrible at talking to people)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jon3947

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if you start talking to people, you will make friends
 

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Read up on **** man. Local news, upcoming events, cars, psychology, sports, anything. Show your face everywhere. And get to know everyone really well. Play sports. There is natural attraction in physical ability.
 
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