"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Starting from scratch

gonnamakeit

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Some background: I am a sophmore was new to school this year and thought if I was nice to people I would eventually get invited places It never happened so what I am left with is a few "freinds" who I talk to and get along with but who never want to hang out with me and everyone else is ok with me but now it is kind of hard to hang out with them. I have not hung out with people for ahwile and do not know how to start I am very afraid of not seeing anyone from school over the summer and then I will come in next year and be screwed since I wouldn;t even be the new kid. Any ideas for how to start makeing freinds since if I just go up to people it will be weird. I sit with people at lunch but I am just sort of there for example if they leave the wouldn't invite me but none of them really dislike me. Also it is not that no one knows me am fairly well known at school like most groups of kids will say whats up to me or high five me it is just I do not know how to go from acquaintance to freind. (I am horrible at talking to people)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jon3947

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if you start talking to people, you will make friends
 

Xer0

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Read up on **** man. Local news, upcoming events, cars, psychology, sports, anything. Show your face everywhere. And get to know everyone really well. Play sports. There is natural attraction in physical ability.
 
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