"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Starting Convos with Teachers

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Hey people,

I try to be an all around alpha guy and can start convos withpeople. but teachers are a different story. I just run out of stuff to say because I can't talk about games or gossip or that sort of thing. So let me know what you say or talk about with teachers and how you get them to like you and relate to you and stuff. Thanks a lot DJs.

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-btw, newsflash, my oneitis is available again, and I only feel 1 thing. The feeling of freedom. weeeeeeee
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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how about...."how are you doing today?"

"How did you go about studying this subject when you were in highschool?"

"What's your hobbies?"

Thats just a few examples....believe it or not teachers are just regular people to. Some have husbands and wives and even children. Just relax man..not like their gonna fail you for havng a convo with them.

Now some teachers don't like to communicate with their students like that and if thats the case then don't worry. Just the way some people/ teachers are. Not all teachers are like that though so I'm sure you won't have a problem. :)

I go to a coummunity college so the teachers/ professors encourgae you to talk with them. They even encourage you to come by their offices and talk.
 
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I talk to my teachers almost exactly the same way as I talk to my friends and people I'm just meeting. I just make fewer jokes about sex and I tone down the cursing unless it's wholly appropriate.
 

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alright AFK. I'm an expert on talking to teachers considering that I'm friends with about half the teachers in my school. I went fishing with the one teacher but that is a whole other story in itself.

You have to feel the people out man. I usually start with "hi..." and then go from there.

I met the student teachers and talked to them about classes and college stuff. I got there whole life story out of them. You just need to feel the people out. Student teachers just think about it there probably stressed out thinking if the students like them or not. You play the friend card your in. I've done it and became really good friends with the one chick. I got her to talk about how friends of hers joined the feminist organization up there fvcked alot of the women and left the organization. They said it was the easiest pvssy in the world.

Older teachers are easy targets also. Some enjoy polotics. Use that to your advantage.

If you have classes with the said teachers you can get a good feel on them. Usually they show some personality and won't be bland. the one teacher will swear at us to get our attention and it is really funny I just use that.

NOTE: For some teachers that don't want to talk to anyone. Unfortuanately there are teachers like that but you just have to treat any of them just like a girl. Next them until another time and try again. I've done this before.

Good luck AFK. IM me if you got any questions.

EDIT: Insideous Instincts got good points too. Just use the same tactics that you would use on a girl minus the closes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hi, how are you today sir?

what are we doing in class today?

not difficult, teachers are just normal human beings.... in disguise!
 

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alright Mr. Debonaire

I think the sir part is over doing it. I never called a teacher sir or mam (sp). I usually call them by M(r)s...

If you don't call your friends by sir why should you call them by sir. Although I'm not saying go up to them and say "Hi sh!teater whats up" teachers deserve a certain amount of respect.
 

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lol

ya, calling them sir WOULD be overdoing it. but when i say it, i say it in a half mocking kind of way, like its a little joke between the two of us that I know he's not REALLY a teacher. :)
 

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My Psychology teachers name is Nedra but she lets us call her "Ned" hehehe...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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