"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Starting Convos with Teachers

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Hey people,

I try to be an all around alpha guy and can start convos withpeople. but teachers are a different story. I just run out of stuff to say because I can't talk about games or gossip or that sort of thing. So let me know what you say or talk about with teachers and how you get them to like you and relate to you and stuff. Thanks a lot DJs.

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-btw, newsflash, my oneitis is available again, and I only feel 1 thing. The feeling of freedom. weeeeeeee
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how about...."how are you doing today?"

"How did you go about studying this subject when you were in highschool?"

"What's your hobbies?"

Thats just a few examples....believe it or not teachers are just regular people to. Some have husbands and wives and even children. Just relax man..not like their gonna fail you for havng a convo with them.

Now some teachers don't like to communicate with their students like that and if thats the case then don't worry. Just the way some people/ teachers are. Not all teachers are like that though so I'm sure you won't have a problem. :)

I go to a coummunity college so the teachers/ professors encourgae you to talk with them. They even encourage you to come by their offices and talk.
 
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I talk to my teachers almost exactly the same way as I talk to my friends and people I'm just meeting. I just make fewer jokes about sex and I tone down the cursing unless it's wholly appropriate.
 

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alright AFK. I'm an expert on talking to teachers considering that I'm friends with about half the teachers in my school. I went fishing with the one teacher but that is a whole other story in itself.

You have to feel the people out man. I usually start with "hi..." and then go from there.

I met the student teachers and talked to them about classes and college stuff. I got there whole life story out of them. You just need to feel the people out. Student teachers just think about it there probably stressed out thinking if the students like them or not. You play the friend card your in. I've done it and became really good friends with the one chick. I got her to talk about how friends of hers joined the feminist organization up there fvcked alot of the women and left the organization. They said it was the easiest pvssy in the world.

Older teachers are easy targets also. Some enjoy polotics. Use that to your advantage.

If you have classes with the said teachers you can get a good feel on them. Usually they show some personality and won't be bland. the one teacher will swear at us to get our attention and it is really funny I just use that.

NOTE: For some teachers that don't want to talk to anyone. Unfortuanately there are teachers like that but you just have to treat any of them just like a girl. Next them until another time and try again. I've done this before.

Good luck AFK. IM me if you got any questions.

EDIT: Insideous Instincts got good points too. Just use the same tactics that you would use on a girl minus the closes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hi, how are you today sir?

what are we doing in class today?

not difficult, teachers are just normal human beings.... in disguise!
 

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alright Mr. Debonaire

I think the sir part is over doing it. I never called a teacher sir or mam (sp). I usually call them by M(r)s...

If you don't call your friends by sir why should you call them by sir. Although I'm not saying go up to them and say "Hi sh!teater whats up" teachers deserve a certain amount of respect.
 

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lol

ya, calling them sir WOULD be overdoing it. but when i say it, i say it in a half mocking kind of way, like its a little joke between the two of us that I know he's not REALLY a teacher. :)
 

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My Psychology teachers name is Nedra but she lets us call her "Ned" hehehe...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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