"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well the basic info is I've just started my first year of college. I like to think I had become a decent enough DJ in high school but it seems like the game has changed a bit now. I go to a commuter campus so when it comes to women most of them don't just have a dorm I could walk down to, they live a decent distance away. And I think that's my first problem I could use advice on. The way I always operated in high school was making it a point to know everything close to me so I could show any type of girl a great time and make up a date as I went along, dependent on how she reacted to different stories and such. It wasn't a methodical way of dating, I kept it pretty free flowing. But the problem is when the girl lives so far away I'm not sure what to do. I don't know the area most of the time she lives in.

So that's the basic question but I'd appreciate any advice on any subject from those of you out there that have had more dating experience in college then me. Which is almost everyone since I just started.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thank you DevanE that was the kind of response I was looking for. I'm not worrying about meeting the ladies so much I guess. In fact I already have a few of their numbers doing some of the things you mentioned. And you're completely right.. I wouldn't give a flying **** if a girl half an hour away called me up middle of the night wanting me to come over lol. I don't know why the hell I was even thinking like that. Thanks buddy
 
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