"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well the basic info is I've just started my first year of college. I like to think I had become a decent enough DJ in high school but it seems like the game has changed a bit now. I go to a commuter campus so when it comes to women most of them don't just have a dorm I could walk down to, they live a decent distance away. And I think that's my first problem I could use advice on. The way I always operated in high school was making it a point to know everything close to me so I could show any type of girl a great time and make up a date as I went along, dependent on how she reacted to different stories and such. It wasn't a methodical way of dating, I kept it pretty free flowing. But the problem is when the girl lives so far away I'm not sure what to do. I don't know the area most of the time she lives in.

So that's the basic question but I'd appreciate any advice on any subject from those of you out there that have had more dating experience in college then me. Which is almost everyone since I just started.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thank you DevanE that was the kind of response I was looking for. I'm not worrying about meeting the ladies so much I guess. In fact I already have a few of their numbers doing some of the things you mentioned. And you're completely right.. I wouldn't give a flying **** if a girl half an hour away called me up middle of the night wanting me to come over lol. I don't know why the hell I was even thinking like that. Thanks buddy
 
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