"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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originaldj

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I think I figured out one of the reasons why so many people who come to this site fail in becoming. This reason is that people come here, these people are shy in nature and loners in school. They read a few pieces oif advice and go to sleep thinking they can pick up any girl.
The next day they are confused as to why they can't approach the girl and if they had the balls to approach her, he wonders why his techniques don't work.
These guys are essentially trying to learn to run before they walk. You have to solve your problems before you become a success. If you are shy put yourself in situations where you are forced to interact with peopel. You will never get a girl if you are too shy to pick her up.
If you have no friends, make yourself more outgoing.
If you have bad conversation skills try talking more and be the one to dominate your conversations.
These smaller skills are ones that are eesential in order to achieve bigger skills, and finally pick up chicks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good post. I think it's fair to say that someone who works on improving their lifestyle before working on their "techniques, etc", has it much easier in the long run. Contray to popular belief, building your own person is immensely more valuable than learning fashion tips or pickup techniques.

Personal success breeds confidence.

btw, this probably belongs in the tips section
 
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originaldj said:
I think I figured out one of the reasons why so many people who come to this site fail in becoming. This reason is that people come here, these people are shy in nature and loners in school. They read a few pieces oif advice and go to sleep thinking they can pick up any girl.
The next day they are confused as to why they can't approach the girl and if they had the balls to approach her, he wonders why his techniques don't work.
These guys are essentially trying to learn to run before they walk. You have to solve your problems before you become a success. If you are shy put yourself in situations where you are forced to interact with peopel. You will never get a girl if you are too shy to pick her up.
If you have no friends, make yourself more outgoing.
If you have bad conversation skills try talking more and be the one to dominate your conversations.
These smaller skills are ones that are eesential in order to achieve bigger skills, and finally pick up chicks.
BEST POST I HAVE READ EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THIS IS SOOOO TRUE WHAT EXACLTY MOST GUYS DO DUDE THIS SHOULD BE A STICKY!!!!


:up: Thumps up!!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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XSilverStarboyX

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Makes sense as to why I could never get anyone in Highschool
 
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