"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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originaldj

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I think I figured out one of the reasons why so many people who come to this site fail in becoming. This reason is that people come here, these people are shy in nature and loners in school. They read a few pieces oif advice and go to sleep thinking they can pick up any girl.
The next day they are confused as to why they can't approach the girl and if they had the balls to approach her, he wonders why his techniques don't work.
These guys are essentially trying to learn to run before they walk. You have to solve your problems before you become a success. If you are shy put yourself in situations where you are forced to interact with peopel. You will never get a girl if you are too shy to pick her up.
If you have no friends, make yourself more outgoing.
If you have bad conversation skills try talking more and be the one to dominate your conversations.
These smaller skills are ones that are eesential in order to achieve bigger skills, and finally pick up chicks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good post. I think it's fair to say that someone who works on improving their lifestyle before working on their "techniques, etc", has it much easier in the long run. Contray to popular belief, building your own person is immensely more valuable than learning fashion tips or pickup techniques.

Personal success breeds confidence.

btw, this probably belongs in the tips section
 
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originaldj said:
I think I figured out one of the reasons why so many people who come to this site fail in becoming. This reason is that people come here, these people are shy in nature and loners in school. They read a few pieces oif advice and go to sleep thinking they can pick up any girl.
The next day they are confused as to why they can't approach the girl and if they had the balls to approach her, he wonders why his techniques don't work.
These guys are essentially trying to learn to run before they walk. You have to solve your problems before you become a success. If you are shy put yourself in situations where you are forced to interact with peopel. You will never get a girl if you are too shy to pick her up.
If you have no friends, make yourself more outgoing.
If you have bad conversation skills try talking more and be the one to dominate your conversations.
These smaller skills are ones that are eesential in order to achieve bigger skills, and finally pick up chicks.
BEST POST I HAVE READ EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THIS IS SOOOO TRUE WHAT EXACLTY MOST GUYS DO DUDE THIS SHOULD BE A STICKY!!!!


:up: Thumps up!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Makes sense as to why I could never get anyone in Highschool
 
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