"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i'm a junior in highschool. my life is **** right now. i don't get invited to anything. nobody EVER calls me. right now, i'm not even thinking of getting girls, i just want to be SOMEBODY and have friends that i can hang out with... and i know that girls will come later

i've been reading a lot of the posts on this site, but nothing applies to me. all these techniques and mindsets don't mean anything for me cause i'm starting from scratch. almost as if i were to go to a new school. i want to get rid of all my past and start fresh and good next year. where do i START?
i'm sick of being me and ...i'm at a point where i don't know where to turn and am completly lost, point me in the direction i'm supposed to go.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you have any hobbies?
What do you like to do?
Is there something you have a passion for?
If you had a Million dollars, what would you do with it?
 
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i dont' mean that sorta thing.
i'm on swim team and play violin.

my own question is confusing me... ummm i'll put it this way. what can i do to become popular and get invited to stuff if i'm starting new? like what are things to keep in mind?
 
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Be a loud mouth in the class, banter with the teacher, get on a sport team. Get known for something, call out "thats what your mama said!" if the teacher says something that warrants it, theyll notice someone with balls.

Offer to play violin solo at a school assembly, get up there with an old violin play something crap and then smash the violin at the end. People will want to talk to you. Some Crazian did that back when i was in school, it was hilarious.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fluffy said:
Be a loud mouth in the class, banter with the teacher, get on a sport team. Get known for something, call out "thats what your mama said!" if the teacher says something that warrants it, theyll notice someone with balls.
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Terrible advice.
 
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