"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i'm a junior in highschool. my life is **** right now. i don't get invited to anything. nobody EVER calls me. right now, i'm not even thinking of getting girls, i just want to be SOMEBODY and have friends that i can hang out with... and i know that girls will come later

i've been reading a lot of the posts on this site, but nothing applies to me. all these techniques and mindsets don't mean anything for me cause i'm starting from scratch. almost as if i were to go to a new school. i want to get rid of all my past and start fresh and good next year. where do i START?
i'm sick of being me and ...i'm at a point where i don't know where to turn and am completly lost, point me in the direction i'm supposed to go.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you have any hobbies?
What do you like to do?
Is there something you have a passion for?
If you had a Million dollars, what would you do with it?
 
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i dont' mean that sorta thing.
i'm on swim team and play violin.

my own question is confusing me... ummm i'll put it this way. what can i do to become popular and get invited to stuff if i'm starting new? like what are things to keep in mind?
 
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Be a loud mouth in the class, banter with the teacher, get on a sport team. Get known for something, call out "thats what your mama said!" if the teacher says something that warrants it, theyll notice someone with balls.

Offer to play violin solo at a school assembly, get up there with an old violin play something crap and then smash the violin at the end. People will want to talk to you. Some Crazian did that back when i was in school, it was hilarious.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fluffy said:
Be a loud mouth in the class, banter with the teacher, get on a sport team. Get known for something, call out "thats what your mama said!" if the teacher says something that warrants it, theyll notice someone with balls.
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Terrible advice.
 
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