Starring at girls when talking to them

[Reyaj]

Ok,
I had written a previous thread about starring at girls when walking.

But how about when you are in conversation?

I tried looking at girls with big open eyes with a smiling and sometimes it seemed like they were getting freaked out, as if they saw I liked them.

Is it better to just think of a girl as a friend when you talk to her, or should you let her see you think she's hot?????

 

[Reyaj]

do u show teeth? do you look wide with your eyes, or just act like they are a friend of yours?

 

[Reyaj]

Allen Thompson says you should give a big wide smile..... I am confused...

 

[Reyaj]

Bump!

 

[Reyaj]

anyone else have advice here?

 

[Reyaj]

anyone?????????

 

[Gina8147]

It is ok to look into their eyes.

It is ok to look in a girl's eyes when you speak to them. If you find her very attractive, a girl wants that eye contact. If she looks away and smiles, then you have touched a shy nerve. That means that she has the same feelings as you. Very important at that time to regain more eye contact to subliminally tell her what is on your mind.

TRUST ME, GIRLS CAN READ YOUR MIND, ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE LOOKING INTO YOUR EYES. Also, they will tell you what is on their minds as well. You will be able to feel that energy.

If you really like someone, be aggressive enough to continue the contact. Girls love contact, especially if they are interested in the guy as well!

Gina

 

[Spookey]

i read something somewhere about triangular looking (or something like that) its basicly where you alternate between looking at the girls left eye, then right eye, then lips (not sure if the order matters, prolly not). its supposed to create sexual tension, not sure how effective it is.

some people get intimidated by direct eye contact, i think as long as you are looking near the eyes its fine.
at the end of the day, worry about what you are saying, shes not going to be overly concerned where you are looking as long as you are engaging and the convo is good

 

[Magnatolia]

Man, don't waste too much energy during the convo thinking about how to smile, how big, what sort or one of two things will happen 1) You'll miss key information she gives you 2) You'll panic and most likely not smile.

A couple of key things:

Showing teeth indicates a 'stronger' smile, not so much a better smile. Same goes for the width of your smile. Personally, I only show my teeth once I've got a bit of rapport going. I wouldn't show my teeth to a stranger.

And just to enhance my energy point up top, I only made these observations at this moment - these aren't things that I usually think about. They're just instinctual.

Another tip: Mirror her. If she says something with a small smile, don't crack a huge-ass grin. Same goes for when you say something. If you start laughing hysterically and she doesn't either ease down a notch or two, or change topics.

Regarding the eyes, only stretch your eyes to exaggerate something, don't stare at her like that - it seems freaky to me.

Anyway, hope this helps. Just my opinions.
J

 

[Reyaj]

nice feedback!!!!!


I don't think showing teeth is such a bad thing.. but I think holding the smile for too long looks freaky...

This left eye right eye stuff, and even mirroring has gotta be overrated.


Anyone read Allen Thompson's article on the smile? He says to give a big grin......... is this not accurate?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Staring is bad, period. Case in point, ever had your girl catch you staring at other women? Has she ever caught you glancing at another woman? See the difference?

 

[Reyaj]

I mean ok... lets say you are talking to a girl you are friends with... you just act normal and yourself.

But if you are talking to a girl you find attractive, do you purposely hold a stare longer, or open your eyes wider?

This is stuff I have never been able to get down.