"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stare at her!

Starriol

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The other day, I was looking at my girlfriend after we had sex and cuddled for a while.
So I look at her as we were both seated and began to think that I would never harm her, that I want to make her as happy as I can and having loving thoughts about her.

Somehow, she sensed this.
So yesterday we talk on the phone and she said she loved the way I looked at her, that I had the most beautiful look in my eyes and that it made her feel real good inside.
When I did this, I looked with my eyes locked on her for quite some looooong seconds.

So take this into account.

Take long looks to the girl you like, it show confidence and it has extra benefits if you truly care for the person, it seems that this becomes transparent to them and they love you for it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ScrewIt

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well you know what they say...a person's eyes is a window to the soul
 

MrS

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What is MAVEC, Shezz?
 

Iamnotacrook

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Players won't like this "tactic" because it's not easily FAKED. That's the only problem, manipulation and lying, being a user, etc.
 

Boner da Stoner

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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C00L

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mavec...sounds like someones name on star trek
 

SinisaD

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To quote JC Jerkson :)

"StarWars people get laid but Star Trek people don't"

That should give u some idea C00L :-D
 

DJ4Real

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Don't just stare at a girl....looking into a girls eyes is all timely.
 
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