"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stare at her!

Starriol

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The other day, I was looking at my girlfriend after we had sex and cuddled for a while.
So I look at her as we were both seated and began to think that I would never harm her, that I want to make her as happy as I can and having loving thoughts about her.

Somehow, she sensed this.
So yesterday we talk on the phone and she said she loved the way I looked at her, that I had the most beautiful look in my eyes and that it made her feel real good inside.
When I did this, I looked with my eyes locked on her for quite some looooong seconds.

So take this into account.

Take long looks to the girl you like, it show confidence and it has extra benefits if you truly care for the person, it seems that this becomes transparent to them and they love you for it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ScrewIt

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well you know what they say...a person's eyes is a window to the soul
 

MrS

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What is MAVEC, Shezz?
 

Iamnotacrook

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Players won't like this "tactic" because it's not easily FAKED. That's the only problem, manipulation and lying, being a user, etc.
 

Boner da Stoner

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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C00L

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mavec...sounds like someones name on star trek
 

SinisaD

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To quote JC Jerkson :)

"StarWars people get laid but Star Trek people don't"

That should give u some idea C00L :-D
 

DJ4Real

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Don't just stare at a girl....looking into a girls eyes is all timely.
 
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