"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Stanislavsky and the way he might look at you

Ars Amoris

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2005
Messages
17
Reaction score
0
Hi guys,
Just thought I would share a little actors trick I picked up along the way. So you're having confidence probs and trying all sorts of imaging and mental **** but it just doesn't seem to work? Okay first of all when it comes to recapturing any emotion one of the prime senses is smell! Believe it or not it's true. So how do we use this little gem? Ok think back to a time when you felt really confident, self assured, top o' the world ma! Then try and remember what you could smell as well as see, hear, and taste. Smell first, its the most important, its hard to remember sometimes but try. You will soon feel the emotion rising within you. Afterwards you dont have to worry about using masonic handshakes, indian signs to recall the emotion, just remember the smell and BANG! the emotion will be there. Its a trick used by many actors, De Niro, Caine, Hanks, Hoffman,... because it works! Any comments appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

iveyleeger

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2005
Messages
334
Reaction score
0
yes, good idea. for example, sniff sunscreen, bam, instantly at the beach, relaxed and cool. smell chlorine, bam, instantly at a swim meet, kicking a--. smell bugspray, instantly in the woods, having a good time. sniff glue ... ;-)
 

Ricky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2002
Messages
4,140
Reaction score
899
Age
52
OK the smell of ***** might be a good one, but I'm not buying a girls used panties just for that, and it'd be hard to sniff em in public.
 

cinephile

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 24, 2004
Messages
225
Reaction score
0
Age
59
Location
Texas
Very interesting

Please share more techniques like this. Method acting is about getting into the moment which would definately help my game out as I am too much about planning.
 

Ars Amoris

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2005
Messages
17
Reaction score
0
Cinephile see my post to "unfortunately i'm not blessed" further up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Top