Duracell_Bunny
Senior Don Juan
We've been dating for 6-8 months, and been "official" for the last 3. She asked about 3 times before I agreed to go into a relationship with her.
This morning I got these two texts:
"Morning gorgeous. I bet you are sleepy today!!! I had a horrible dream :-( we fell out and you dumped me I woke up crying :-( have a lovely day at work xxxxxxxxxxxx"
"This dream/nightmare has proper messed my head all I'm thinking now is that you wanna be with someone else not me arrrggghhh :-("
Anyway, she has been acting a little strange recently - I'm a little worried that shes thinking about moving in with me. I currently live alone, and she's already told me her parents (who she currently lives with) have asked if she's thought about moving in. She's been searching for a place over the past view weeks, but during this time she's been mentioning how her freinds are all loved up etc. and people at her work place have been questioning why she doesn't move in with me.
Thankfuly she has not asked me directly so far, if she does I will be explaining I am very unsure, as I do not want to settle yet.
Givining myself a reality check I've realized a few weeks ago I should focus more on spending time with my friends, I was feeling somewhat empty and don't want to end up having to rebuild my life if we do end our relationship.
Sun night, my freind was down for the weekend to visit his parents (he lives a few hours away). He invited me out for a drink, and I couldn't really refuse otherwise I proberbly won't be able to see him in person for another few weeks. We had planned for a cozy night in, although it was only one drink and I would have only been gone for just an hour. She was on about going home instead, even though I said she's welcome to come along. In the end she ended up staying and having a bath at mine. When I got back she was more than pleased to see me, she gave sex and she even let me finish on her face and then continued giving me a b/f until I had completely finished, which is a first!
Although I feel confident that I have the pottentional to find someone hotter, I'd be gutted if we ended the relationship. The one I have now is very high quality and treats me with huge respect. Although all of this crap of "oh your just going to leave me for someone a lot fitter than me" and also when she once asked about other girls I was dating when we first met, that was a WTF? moment.
In the back of my mind I do from time to time think of being with, and checking out other women who are hotter. But I would never cheat, I've been cheated on in the past and know what it feels like. I have not been lining up anyone, or been in contact with any other chick.
How the how do I handle this situation? I feel thats she's wanting a lot more comitment than I am ready for, and maybe will end up loosing her over it.
This morning I got these two texts:
"Morning gorgeous. I bet you are sleepy today!!! I had a horrible dream :-( we fell out and you dumped me I woke up crying :-( have a lovely day at work xxxxxxxxxxxx"
"This dream/nightmare has proper messed my head all I'm thinking now is that you wanna be with someone else not me arrrggghhh :-("
Anyway, she has been acting a little strange recently - I'm a little worried that shes thinking about moving in with me. I currently live alone, and she's already told me her parents (who she currently lives with) have asked if she's thought about moving in. She's been searching for a place over the past view weeks, but during this time she's been mentioning how her freinds are all loved up etc. and people at her work place have been questioning why she doesn't move in with me.
Thankfuly she has not asked me directly so far, if she does I will be explaining I am very unsure, as I do not want to settle yet.
Givining myself a reality check I've realized a few weeks ago I should focus more on spending time with my friends, I was feeling somewhat empty and don't want to end up having to rebuild my life if we do end our relationship.
Sun night, my freind was down for the weekend to visit his parents (he lives a few hours away). He invited me out for a drink, and I couldn't really refuse otherwise I proberbly won't be able to see him in person for another few weeks. We had planned for a cozy night in, although it was only one drink and I would have only been gone for just an hour. She was on about going home instead, even though I said she's welcome to come along. In the end she ended up staying and having a bath at mine. When I got back she was more than pleased to see me, she gave sex and she even let me finish on her face and then continued giving me a b/f until I had completely finished, which is a first!
Although I feel confident that I have the pottentional to find someone hotter, I'd be gutted if we ended the relationship. The one I have now is very high quality and treats me with huge respect. Although all of this crap of "oh your just going to leave me for someone a lot fitter than me" and also when she once asked about other girls I was dating when we first met, that was a WTF? moment.
In the back of my mind I do from time to time think of being with, and checking out other women who are hotter. But I would never cheat, I've been cheated on in the past and know what it feels like. I have not been lining up anyone, or been in contact with any other chick.
How the how do I handle this situation? I feel thats she's wanting a lot more comitment than I am ready for, and maybe will end up loosing her over it.
