"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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backbreaker

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I was at a friends house today, it just so happens with a friend of mine who knew two girls, one in a relationship, one single, both cute but not Hot or anything... definatly ****able though.

Anyway, we get on the subject of dating and one of them starts talking about a first date she recently went on to a movie. I told her that was a bad idea, and the rationale why. She agreed with me. So she asks me what do I do on first dates?... I don't really go on first dates, but when I do, I go to do something fun or something I have been meaning to do for a while, and now have an excuse to do, like go-cart riding or gator golf, or better yet, golf in general.. swimming, a minor league baseball game, you get the point.

So she asks me what about dinner? I say no, at least not on the first date. And she questioned me on it, and I guess she expected me to back down. No way in hell I would ever take a girl out to eat on a first date, unless I was virtually guaranteed sex afterwards.

Like I explaned to her, you have to earn the right to be taken out to eat, it's not given.

My friend tried to cover up, or whatever, and say how he likes going to the movies and **** like that.. I guess they thought I was going to do the same.

WRONG.

so one of them mentions they are hungry, and they ask do I want to go get something to eat.. I say that's cool. They ask me would I pay for them. I tellt hem no..why should i?

By now it's just the fact of the matter, i"m not backing down, simply because that's what I believe. This ***** isn't even hot and she is telling me what is and what isn't right on a date.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Obviously the going out to eat was a test by her. Aslong as you didny pay for her, your fine, nothing wrong with eating. it wasnt a date, you where all just going to get some food.

I actualy must say well done, this is good going.
 

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It's a very strange phenomenon. When you treat women good, and spend money on them, they tend to resent you.
 

SELF-MASTERY

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backbreaker said:
hell no I didn't take them out to eat.
All is good.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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