"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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backbreaker

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I was at a friends house today, it just so happens with a friend of mine who knew two girls, one in a relationship, one single, both cute but not Hot or anything... definatly ****able though.

Anyway, we get on the subject of dating and one of them starts talking about a first date she recently went on to a movie. I told her that was a bad idea, and the rationale why. She agreed with me. So she asks me what do I do on first dates?... I don't really go on first dates, but when I do, I go to do something fun or something I have been meaning to do for a while, and now have an excuse to do, like go-cart riding or gator golf, or better yet, golf in general.. swimming, a minor league baseball game, you get the point.

So she asks me what about dinner? I say no, at least not on the first date. And she questioned me on it, and I guess she expected me to back down. No way in hell I would ever take a girl out to eat on a first date, unless I was virtually guaranteed sex afterwards.

Like I explaned to her, you have to earn the right to be taken out to eat, it's not given.

My friend tried to cover up, or whatever, and say how he likes going to the movies and **** like that.. I guess they thought I was going to do the same.

WRONG.

so one of them mentions they are hungry, and they ask do I want to go get something to eat.. I say that's cool. They ask me would I pay for them. I tellt hem no..why should i?

By now it's just the fact of the matter, i"m not backing down, simply because that's what I believe. This ***** isn't even hot and she is telling me what is and what isn't right on a date.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Obviously the going out to eat was a test by her. Aslong as you didny pay for her, your fine, nothing wrong with eating. it wasnt a date, you where all just going to get some food.

I actualy must say well done, this is good going.
 

Mr_knowit_all

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It's a very strange phenomenon. When you treat women good, and spend money on them, they tend to resent you.
 

SELF-MASTERY

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backbreaker said:
hell no I didn't take them out to eat.
All is good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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