"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Standing out from the crowd

Dictatorsaurus

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There is a young good looking girl that works at a gym I go to. Since she is so good looking, she gets alot of attention from guys all the time who stand there and talk for a long time. I have spoken to her only twice and I made the conversation short and friendly. What would be the best way to make her interested and realize that I'm not like the rest who chase after her like dogs?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Slickster

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Originally posted by Dictatorsaurus
There is a young good looking girl that works at a gym I go to. Since she is so good looking, she gets alot of attention from guys all the time who stand there and talk for a long time. I have spoken to her only twice and I made the conversation short and friendly. What would be the best way to make her interested and realize that I'm not like the rest who chase after her like dogs?
You've almost answered your own question.

Don't chase her like the other chumps.
 

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Re: Re: Standing out from the crowd

Originally posted by Slickster
You've almost answered your own question.

Don't chase her like the other chumps.
I guess you're right. But the difficult part would be to get to know her with time rather than pressuring or persuing her.
 

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As you walk by...*mumble..."someone needs to lay off those milkshakes. Wink at her as you pass. This should atleast get you into convo, if she acts snobby then forget her.
 

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lol, good one, or walk past her desk and just when you are passing her, shoot her a quick glance. If she looks at you, stop dead in your tracks, sigh a big sigh, and walk directly to her desk and say "Can't I just come in here one time without all you women leering at me"? Shake your head as you walk away.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ill give you three words.

you look... different.
 
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