"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Standards too high

captain55

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Ive been single for 6 weeks now and have only found one chick I am actually interested in. My standards are so high that I really can't sleep with anything less than an 8/10. My ex was an 7.5 or an 8...the last girl I went out with was an 8.5 or a 9 and she asked me out so I know what Im capable of.

I meet chicks that are cute and nice but I don't want anything to do with them. Any other guys in the same situation?

I look at my life like this...I was 23 dating an 8 making average money. Two years later Im 25 and successful, so how can I NOT keep climbing the latter?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wifehunter

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As long as you don't expect them to lay golden eggs, you'll be fine. And you'll be saving yourself from the typical chick issues, for now.

because:

 
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