"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Standards too high

captain55

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Ive been single for 6 weeks now and have only found one chick I am actually interested in. My standards are so high that I really can't sleep with anything less than an 8/10. My ex was an 7.5 or an 8...the last girl I went out with was an 8.5 or a 9 and she asked me out so I know what Im capable of.

I meet chicks that are cute and nice but I don't want anything to do with them. Any other guys in the same situation?

I look at my life like this...I was 23 dating an 8 making average money. Two years later Im 25 and successful, so how can I NOT keep climbing the latter?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wifehunter

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As long as you don't expect them to lay golden eggs, you'll be fine. And you'll be saving yourself from the typical chick issues, for now.

because:

 
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