"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Standards too high

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captain55

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Ive been single for 6 weeks now and have only found one chick I am actually interested in. My standards are so high that I really can't sleep with anything less than an 8/10. My ex was an 7.5 or an 8...the last girl I went out with was an 8.5 or a 9 and she asked me out so I know what Im capable of.

I meet chicks that are cute and nice but I don't want anything to do with them. Any other guys in the same situation?

I look at my life like this...I was 23 dating an 8 making average money. Two years later Im 25 and successful, so how can I NOT keep climbing the latter?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As long as you don't expect them to lay golden eggs, you'll be fine. And you'll be saving yourself from the typical chick issues, for now.

because:

 
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