"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stamford Connecticut and NYC

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So I'll be moving to Stamford Connecticut to work the next week. I likely stay there instead of nyc, mainly the because of the cost of the train to work everyday.

Anyone know what there is to do in Stamford? I don't know what to expect, it looks like a very pleasant town with rich professionals (unlike myself ). I'll be working at UBS, - if you know any cheap, good places to live.

I'll probably go out to the city during the weekends. I'm into soccer, tennis, beach volleyball (any of that out there)? Most likley, many trips to atlantic city or foxwoods as well.

And of course, where are the hot women at?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bob2007 said:
So I'll be moving to Stamford Connecticut to work the next week. I likely stay there instead of nyc, mainly the because of the cost of the train to work everyday.

Anyone know what there is to do in Stamford? I don't know what to expect, it looks like a very pleasant town with rich professionals (unlike myself ). I'll be working at UBS, - if you know any cheap, good places to live.

I'll probably go out to the city during the weekends. I'm into soccer, tennis, beach volleyball (any of that out there)? Most likley, many trips to atlantic city or foxwoods as well.

Of course, also where are the hot women at?
Lol...I really can't give you any advice, but I always knew Stamford was synonymous with UBS. That is funny you are working there (good company).
 

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Ya good company. But funny thing, the 2nd interviewer was very direct when he walked me out to the front. He was like why do you even want to work here? The pay is low and they work you hard. Growth is here, but it'll be a long time. He was also Chinese, so thats probably why he was so direct when I asked him how he liked it here.

Actually the pay is like more than double what I was paid in Toronto.
 
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