"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stamford Connecticut and NYC

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So I'll be moving to Stamford Connecticut to work the next week. I likely stay there instead of nyc, mainly the because of the cost of the train to work everyday.

Anyone know what there is to do in Stamford? I don't know what to expect, it looks like a very pleasant town with rich professionals (unlike myself ). I'll be working at UBS, - if you know any cheap, good places to live.

I'll probably go out to the city during the weekends. I'm into soccer, tennis, beach volleyball (any of that out there)? Most likley, many trips to atlantic city or foxwoods as well.

And of course, where are the hot women at?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bob2007 said:
So I'll be moving to Stamford Connecticut to work the next week. I likely stay there instead of nyc, mainly the because of the cost of the train to work everyday.

Anyone know what there is to do in Stamford? I don't know what to expect, it looks like a very pleasant town with rich professionals (unlike myself ). I'll be working at UBS, - if you know any cheap, good places to live.

I'll probably go out to the city during the weekends. I'm into soccer, tennis, beach volleyball (any of that out there)? Most likley, many trips to atlantic city or foxwoods as well.

Of course, also where are the hot women at?
Lol...I really can't give you any advice, but I always knew Stamford was synonymous with UBS. That is funny you are working there (good company).
 

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Ya good company. But funny thing, the 2nd interviewer was very direct when he walked me out to the front. He was like why do you even want to work here? The pay is low and they work you hard. Growth is here, but it'll be a long time. He was also Chinese, so thats probably why he was so direct when I asked him how he liked it here.

Actually the pay is like more than double what I was paid in Toronto.
 
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