"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Stamford Connecticut and NYC

bob2007

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So I'll be moving to Stamford Connecticut to work the next week. I likely stay there instead of nyc, mainly the because of the cost of the train to work everyday.

Anyone know what there is to do in Stamford? I don't know what to expect, it looks like a very pleasant town with rich professionals (unlike myself ). I'll be working at UBS, - if you know any cheap, good places to live.

I'll probably go out to the city during the weekends. I'm into soccer, tennis, beach volleyball (any of that out there)? Most likley, many trips to atlantic city or foxwoods as well.

And of course, where are the hot women at?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bob2007 said:
So I'll be moving to Stamford Connecticut to work the next week. I likely stay there instead of nyc, mainly the because of the cost of the train to work everyday.

Anyone know what there is to do in Stamford? I don't know what to expect, it looks like a very pleasant town with rich professionals (unlike myself ). I'll be working at UBS, - if you know any cheap, good places to live.

I'll probably go out to the city during the weekends. I'm into soccer, tennis, beach volleyball (any of that out there)? Most likley, many trips to atlantic city or foxwoods as well.

Of course, also where are the hot women at?
Lol...I really can't give you any advice, but I always knew Stamford was synonymous with UBS. That is funny you are working there (good company).
 

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Ya good company. But funny thing, the 2nd interviewer was very direct when he walked me out to the front. He was like why do you even want to work here? The pay is low and they work you hard. Growth is here, but it'll be a long time. He was also Chinese, so thats probably why he was so direct when I asked him how he liked it here.

Actually the pay is like more than double what I was paid in Toronto.
 
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