That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Put the rows after deadlifts, order should be Deads, Row, Pull Ups, Curls. Rows are as important as Bench.I-tallionStallion said:FRIDAY ---
Had a hard nights sleep...results are weird
Deadlifts 3x5
1x5 385 - struggling pretty bad...for some reason today i just really didn't feel like going all out on these...i took an easy after this set. Nothing i'm concerned about...just didn't feel like it today
1x5 335 lbs
1x5 340 lbs
Pullups 2x8
Bi curls 3x8
1x8 30 lbs
1x8 35 lbs
1x8 40 lbs
barbell rows - 3x6
1x6 170 lbs
1x6 175 lbs
1x6 185 lbs PR ---was really liking the rows today...don't know why. the last two reps were probably a bit cheating...so i'd say i won't go any higher than this for this week. I'll work on perfecting it
Well thats it...nothing spectular...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Congrats on the gains bro! :cheer:I-tallionStallion said:I am very lucky to have had the advice of several senior board members (you know who you are) and without you guys i'd be a clueless. This is by no means an end for me, i will continue on till i am fully happy and then maintain. It is not just a quick fix, but a lifestyle change that i enjoy, although others think I'm crazy for eating as much protein as i do haha.
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This right here is the main reason for your gainsI-tallionStallion said:halfway through november i decided it was time to work hard. And I have seen amazing gains.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.