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I-tallionStallion

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Bench Press

130x5
150x5
165x5
180x5
200x5 - Should have upped the weight. A bit too easy.

165x5
150x5
135x 15 reps
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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I-tallionStallion

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FRIDAY

Box Squats

150x5
185x5
225x5
255x5
290x5

225x5
185x5
150x18


MONDAY

Incline Bench

190x5 - I wasn't keeping good form on this set and struggled but got the last rep
190x5 - I did better on my form here and pretty much nailed this PR I was surprised I was able to do this on my diet. This is a big improvement from where I once started. I can only imagine if I had some carbs in me other than veges haha


Barbell Rows

160x10
160x10
160x10
160x10

I was very worn out at this point.

Checked my waist, still at 39 1/2 but I weighed in at 221. Making a total of 11 pounds weightloss in the last 6 weeks. I should be back to about 215ish in 2weeks and at that point I'll have to decide if I'm going to extend this to a twelve week cut instead of the 8. I'm looking very good and I'm excited to show some pictures in two weeks. I just have to keep my cardio more as it's a really big pain in the a**. I really don't want to get too small though. 200 lbs is as low as I'm going. I don't want to look like an average bear.

My plans after I shed the BF will probably involve getting my body used to the food again. I'm afraid that I will have a yo-yo effect after this. So once I do that, I'll probably go back to DCing again or whatever EFFORT will think is best.

I don't plan on ever juicing for the record. Not my style. I guess I'll let you guys know what I decided in the future.
 

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I-tallionStallion said:
FRIDAY

Box Squats

150x5
185x5
225x5
255x5
290x5

225x5
185x5
150x18


MONDAY

Incline Bench

190x5 - I wasn't keeping good form on this set and struggled but got the last rep
190x5 - I did better on my form here and pretty much nailed this PR I was surprised I was able to do this on my diet. This is a big improvement from where I once started. I can only imagine if I had some carbs in me other than veges haha


Barbell Rows

160x10
160x10
160x10
160x10

I was very worn out at this point.

Checked my waist, still at 39 1/2 but I weighed in at 221. Making a total of 11 pounds weightloss in the last 6 weeks. I should be back to about 215ish in 2weeks and at that point I'll have to decide if I'm going to extend this to a twelve week cut instead of the 8. I'm looking very good and I'm excited to show some pictures in two weeks. I just have to keep my cardio more as it's a really big pain in the a**. I really don't want to get too small though. 200 lbs is as low as I'm going. I don't want to look like an average bear.

My plans after I shed the BF will probably involve getting my body used to the food again. I'm afraid that I will have a yo-yo effect after this. So once I do that, I'll probably go back to DCing again or whatever EFFORT will think is best.

I don't plan on ever juicing for the record. Not my style. I guess I'll let you guys know what I decided in the future.

Good job. :up:
 

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Hey guys...sorry for the lack of updates.

Friday -

BB press

5x3

210x3
210x3
210x3
210x3
210x2 Failed here...just couldn't get it after I screwed up on the second rep

140x20 reps

I'll post Monday and wednesday tomorrow.

Just wanted to say thanks to you Don and and Quag. Rampage, I am a decent size now. Everyone keeps calling me a muscle head..ahh...I rather be called a metalhead haha
 

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Long time no talk fellas...haha BAD NEWS! I fell off the horse about 7 weeks ago. After vacation twice for two weeks, I've been stuck working on my album like crazy and haven't really bothered with weightlifting. Maybe going 1-2 a week keeping up what I was previously doing…things just kept getting in the way. I’m up til like 5 in the morning working on music everyday. Which means I never wake up to walk anymore. Haven’t done that in like 3-4 weeks. I’ve been eating healthy on and off. To give you an example, I’d eat three good meals and by night time I’d blow it by having an extra meal filled with carbs. Granted things could be a lot worse, but I’m pretty much back where I started haha. I stopped lifting around 220 lbs with a 38 inch waist….here are the photos from 8-9 weeks ago…still fat though:

http://s990.photobucket.com/albums/af23/I-tallionstallion/

And now I am at 232lbs (no photos of that haha) about with some muscle loss as I have starved myself at times almost because I didn’t feel like . So. I need to get myself back in line and drop the fat again. After dropping the fat, I want to get back on predominated strength/muscle routine. I already have the tools from EFFORT. Just got to reapply them, see if he’ll want me to make any changes

It really sucks what I’ve done, I was so close to getting where I wanted but things started slipping away. I haven’t completely abandoned the gym, but to give you an example I only went once last week for squats. This week has been the worst one yet in how I’m eating. I plan to lift tomorrow and on Saturday and start walking everyday. Ive lost all my gym partners (I had two) and it makes it a lot more difficult to stay motivated but I’m ready to start to get lean again.

Sorry I’ve been away guys, I plan to be back in full force! I’ll post up more details tomorrow. :rockon:

Btw I'm pissed about my strength loss and how much stronger everyone on here has been getting. DON'T THINK I'M GONNA LET YOU WIN :trouble: haha
 

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Glad to see you back. Shoot me and pm and we'll get you back on track.
 

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I-tallionStallion said:
Long time no talk fellas...haha BAD NEWS! I fell off the horse about 7 weeks ago. After vacation twice for two weeks, I've been stuck working on my album like crazy and haven't really bothered with weightlifting. Maybe going 1-2 a week keeping up what I was previously doing…things just kept getting in the way. I’m up til like 5 in the morning working on music everyday. Which means I never wake up to walk anymore. Haven’t done that in like 3-4 weeks. I’ve been eating healthy on and off. To give you an example, I’d eat three good meals and by night time I’d blow it by having an extra meal filled with carbs. Granted things could be a lot worse, but I’m pretty much back where I started haha. I stopped lifting around 220 lbs with a 38 inch waist….here are the photos from 8-9 weeks ago…still fat though:

http://s990.photobucket.com/albums/af23/I-tallionstallion/

And now I am at 232lbs (no photos of that haha) about with some muscle loss as I have starved myself at times almost because I didn’t feel like . So. I need to get myself back in line and drop the fat again. After dropping the fat, I want to get back on predominated strength/muscle routine. I already have the tools from EFFORT. Just got to reapply them, see if he’ll want me to make any changes

It really sucks what I’ve done, I was so close to getting where I wanted but things started slipping away. I haven’t completely abandoned the gym, but to give you an example I only went once last week for squats. This week has been the worst one yet in how I’m eating. I plan to lift tomorrow and on Saturday and start walking everyday. Ive lost all my gym partners (I had two) and it makes it a lot more difficult to stay motivated but I’m ready to start to get lean again.

Sorry I’ve been away guys, I plan to be back in full force! I’ll post up more details tomorrow. :rockon:

Btw I'm pissed about my strength loss and how much stronger everyone on here has been getting. DON'T THINK I'M GONNA LET YOU WIN :trouble: haha
-Makes sure I put that in there incase people don't know the situation-

Box Squats

135x5
145x5
155x5
165x5
175x5

155x5
145x5
135x3

WHEW I was tired...haven't squatted like this in a LONG time. I went way too hard I think for my first time back squatting heavy in like a month
 

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That's a fair amount of sets! Was your heart not feeling it the most?

Good to see you back man. I sent you a pm a month or two ago, it was like a day after your last login. Don't know if you got it or not.

Sorry to hear you fell of a horse, but I guess it can't have been to bad since your squatting- so that's good.

Your numbers should go thourgh the roof. As long as you have been eating you should have most of your muscle, and a couple of weeks and those neural connections will be firing nice and strong again!

Time for that 500 deadlift,

Quagmire
 

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Good to see you back! haha, nice volume on the squats even when you're getting back to into it!

I too wanna see that 500 lb deadlift.
 

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I want to see it too. Definitely gonna be awhile before I can do that Fugly haha.

Hey Quag I hope you are right, I missed your PM somehow. i sure hope your right about me being back to normal soon. Effort is going to have me on a new diet so I'll post it up as soon as I know what it is. If I can drop like 20 lbs I'd be really happy. It was sooooo much easier getting stronger, gaining muscle, and gaining weight. Losing weight has been tough. Most disagree with me there haha
 

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I-tallionStallion said:
It was sooooo much easier getting stronger, gaining muscle, and gaining weight. Losing weight has been tough. Most disagree with me there haha
Because you have one hell of an ability to eat a lot of food. Losing it will be easier in theory just gonna have to give up your double quarter pounders for a while. Check your email.
 

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Because you have one hell of an ability to eat a lot of food. Losing it will be easier in theory just gonna have to give up your double quarter pounders for a while. Check your email.
Hahahahaha ;) It's wierd but when I eat more food i shovel it all in on a set schedule...but when I eat a small diet food all the time with no carbs i lose the will to eat hahaha I should be okay on this diet though. It's a lot easier so far.

Wed:

5x10 flat barbell

115lbsx10
115lbsx10
115lbsx10
115lbsx10
115lbsx10

WOW I'm hurting a lot today

3x8 seated dumbbell press
30lbs - pfffff...just took an easy here.
 

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I'm going to try lose some weight again. I find if I'm not on here on a constant basis, I don't take my training serious enough. Something I've had to deal with is the feeling of letting myself down in the last few months. I got down to 220 at prob 17% bf and shot right back to 235lbs.

My diet has ranged from great, good, to awful, to bad 7 days a week. Like I'll have a perfect day, and ruin it at night. I finally realized that I need to keep a journal...if I do I get my $hit done. If I don't, I miss meals, workout days...I don't stick to any schedule. My sleeping schedule sucks.

I've been trying to up my moral on eating by eating foods that led me to losing 44 pounds 2 1/2 years ago.

I haven't stopped lifting but it isn't consistent. So I feel zero progress is made. I know if I dedicate myself for a couple months, I'll be in great shape for the summer and can go back.

I just want to get back into shape. I'm going to try to do the diet Effort gave me a couple months ago along with the workout for 3 weeks he gave me and take it from there. If I can put in a solid month...I'd be happy as hell. So started Wed I'm starting up again. I'm going to get EFFORT to help me again. Waist size is 42 inches, weight is 237 this morning.

I know I can do this. I'm going to try to post my diet and workout up as much as I can.
 

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Good to see you back and more committed mang... Unfortunately life has a way of making it tough to be healthy. Its what we do to find ways around this that makes us stronger. Good luck!
 

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Fugly said it, life get's in the way. You gotta make time!

If time and motivation are an issue start of slow. Do the weights twice a week instead of 3 times.

Ease into the diet stuff as well. Don't go full force into a keto, it isn't necessary. If you're 15%+, cleaning up the diet (no junk, cut the carbs down to a moderate amount) and going for brisk walks 4x30mins a week will be enough initially to get things moving. You can become more strict as time goes by and you see results.

And remember not to go to heavy on the weights, take it easy for a couple of weeks and build back into it.

Good to hear from you,

Quagmire
 

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Thanks Gugyl and Quagmire. I haven't stopped lifting just not as heavy as I used to. Going to the gym today and I've already started the diet right. Going to do my best to put my healthy lifestyle back in front in my life. I can't wait to push myself again.
 

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I meant to say Fugly...haha.

Been eating right and going to the gym. Been going real light.


Monday:

Squats 3x10 - 135 lbs
Lat Pull Down 4x8 - 120 lbs

Wed:

FLat Barbell Bench 5x10 - 100 lbs
Seated DB Military Press 3x8 - 45 lbs

I've walked 3 times this week in the moring, tomorrow will be the 4th time. I feel really good about everything and I'm making a good effort to do this again. Just gotta get back on track and my strength will come back to me. I don't think I've lost too much strength. Once I get back to normal in a month it should be fun to start lifting heavy again.
 

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I-tallionStallion said:
I meant to say Fugly...haha.

Been eating right and going to the gym. Been going real light.


Monday:

Squats 3x10 - 135 lbs
Lat Pull Down 4x8 - 120 lbs

Wed:

FLat Barbell Bench 5x10 - 100 lbs
Seated DB Military Press 3x8 - 45 lbs

I've walked 3 times this week in the moring, tomorrow will be the 4th time. I feel really good about everything and I'm making a good effort to do this again. Just gotta get back on track and my strength will come back to me. I don't think I've lost too much strength. Once I get back to normal in a month it should be fun to start lifting heavy again.

Are you doing straight sets with the same weight? Why aren't you ramping up your exercises? for instance If I was warming up for a 190 lb incline bench press it goes something like this.

barX15
95X8
135X8
155X8
175X3
190X as many reps as I can get pretty much ALL OUT intensity!!!

So the first 5 sets were just prepping/warming up my body for that last set or two....I don't really hit failure on those 5 sets. Yet I still use them to stimulate muscle, I move the bar fast and controlled and pump the prime movers up.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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