"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stages of success

everywomanshero

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I believe one can dissect his own posts and tell roughly what stage of the game he is it.


Cannot get close to women == Women are angels and can do no wrong. They are OK, I'm not OK

Gets Laid but doesn't feel he can get it easily == *****es about Child Support or otherwise how unfair things are against men. Worried if one woman ditches him he cannot get another because "it's not fair" that player-jerk everywomanshero is getting to **** them all and it's all the systems fault! I'm OK they're not OK.

Gets Great Reaction from women and knows he can lay alot of women easily == everywomansherolevel == walks right up to women without hesitation, his friends laugh with him about how good he is or that time he AMOG'd xyz and got the girl, doesn;t buy into the nonsense when guys start talking about inner game XYZ and cannot offer any real content or demonstrate a successful PU. I do successful sets right infront of groups of men, so I cannot respect any man who cannot do the same or work towards that goal. Thank god it's not fair :) I'm OK, they're OK, most guys are tools :)

God Level == I'll answer this in a couple of years if all goes well :=)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how long did it take to go from 1st stage to now and what were the things you did to get there?
 

everywomanshero

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This is the most important things:

Realize noone on earth can successfully game every woman he meets. It doesn't matter if you have to open 5 or 500000 to get a great reaction you just keep going. Never think or analyze what went wrong in the field, all that does is kill your state and block you from approaching. Don't let wings screw you up, often they blow your sets by coming in or weirding you out trying to analyze things. Your state determines your success much more so than anything else. Guys who are great in awesome state will still get blown out when in shytty state.

Shark's stuff is great for getting started because it will teach you how to not be an excuser. I use a combo of shark swinggcat MM and natural game. If I had it to do all over again, I would start with shark then move to swinggcat then finally to MM and begin by *really* doing the newbie mission. If you go out with wings just make sure they know that you will branch off on your own for the most part and that you won't require any winging beyond occasionally stoping to hive 5 each other.

I would also read all of Tyler Durden's major posts. Everything he says just screams of field experience. You can tell he knows this shyt inside and out.

Unfortunately, most of the older "classic" guys that we talk about were KJs. Once you get in the field alot you will start to auto detect KJing.
 
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