"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stages of success

everywomanshero

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I believe one can dissect his own posts and tell roughly what stage of the game he is it.


Cannot get close to women == Women are angels and can do no wrong. They are OK, I'm not OK

Gets Laid but doesn't feel he can get it easily == *****es about Child Support or otherwise how unfair things are against men. Worried if one woman ditches him he cannot get another because "it's not fair" that player-jerk everywomanshero is getting to **** them all and it's all the systems fault! I'm OK they're not OK.

Gets Great Reaction from women and knows he can lay alot of women easily == everywomansherolevel == walks right up to women without hesitation, his friends laugh with him about how good he is or that time he AMOG'd xyz and got the girl, doesn;t buy into the nonsense when guys start talking about inner game XYZ and cannot offer any real content or demonstrate a successful PU. I do successful sets right infront of groups of men, so I cannot respect any man who cannot do the same or work towards that goal. Thank god it's not fair :) I'm OK, they're OK, most guys are tools :)

God Level == I'll answer this in a couple of years if all goes well :=)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how long did it take to go from 1st stage to now and what were the things you did to get there?
 

everywomanshero

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This is the most important things:

Realize noone on earth can successfully game every woman he meets. It doesn't matter if you have to open 5 or 500000 to get a great reaction you just keep going. Never think or analyze what went wrong in the field, all that does is kill your state and block you from approaching. Don't let wings screw you up, often they blow your sets by coming in or weirding you out trying to analyze things. Your state determines your success much more so than anything else. Guys who are great in awesome state will still get blown out when in shytty state.

Shark's stuff is great for getting started because it will teach you how to not be an excuser. I use a combo of shark swinggcat MM and natural game. If I had it to do all over again, I would start with shark then move to swinggcat then finally to MM and begin by *really* doing the newbie mission. If you go out with wings just make sure they know that you will branch off on your own for the most part and that you won't require any winging beyond occasionally stoping to hive 5 each other.

I would also read all of Tyler Durden's major posts. Everything he says just screams of field experience. You can tell he knows this shyt inside and out.

Unfortunately, most of the older "classic" guys that we talk about were KJs. Once you get in the field alot you will start to auto detect KJing.
 
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