"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stages of success

everywomanshero

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I believe one can dissect his own posts and tell roughly what stage of the game he is it.


Cannot get close to women == Women are angels and can do no wrong. They are OK, I'm not OK

Gets Laid but doesn't feel he can get it easily == *****es about Child Support or otherwise how unfair things are against men. Worried if one woman ditches him he cannot get another because "it's not fair" that player-jerk everywomanshero is getting to **** them all and it's all the systems fault! I'm OK they're not OK.

Gets Great Reaction from women and knows he can lay alot of women easily == everywomansherolevel == walks right up to women without hesitation, his friends laugh with him about how good he is or that time he AMOG'd xyz and got the girl, doesn;t buy into the nonsense when guys start talking about inner game XYZ and cannot offer any real content or demonstrate a successful PU. I do successful sets right infront of groups of men, so I cannot respect any man who cannot do the same or work towards that goal. Thank god it's not fair :) I'm OK, they're OK, most guys are tools :)

God Level == I'll answer this in a couple of years if all goes well :=)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how long did it take to go from 1st stage to now and what were the things you did to get there?
 

everywomanshero

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This is the most important things:

Realize noone on earth can successfully game every woman he meets. It doesn't matter if you have to open 5 or 500000 to get a great reaction you just keep going. Never think or analyze what went wrong in the field, all that does is kill your state and block you from approaching. Don't let wings screw you up, often they blow your sets by coming in or weirding you out trying to analyze things. Your state determines your success much more so than anything else. Guys who are great in awesome state will still get blown out when in shytty state.

Shark's stuff is great for getting started because it will teach you how to not be an excuser. I use a combo of shark swinggcat MM and natural game. If I had it to do all over again, I would start with shark then move to swinggcat then finally to MM and begin by *really* doing the newbie mission. If you go out with wings just make sure they know that you will branch off on your own for the most part and that you won't require any winging beyond occasionally stoping to hive 5 each other.

I would also read all of Tyler Durden's major posts. Everything he says just screams of field experience. You can tell he knows this shyt inside and out.

Unfortunately, most of the older "classic" guys that we talk about were KJs. Once you get in the field alot you will start to auto detect KJing.
 
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