"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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St. Patrick's Day Review

HaleyBaron

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Went to the Dallas St. Patrick's day this year. I go every year now. I do both the parade and the Block Party. Unfortunately, SW15 isn't here anymore to comment on it, but I'll tell you guys about it anyway to give insight as far as women is concerned.

This parade takes place in the greenville area of Dallas. This is majority white with some having money. As a result, the majority of the houses up and down the neighborhood belong to the whites, and they usually have little parties going on at their houses along the walking path through Greenville. SMU is also a majority white rich kid school nearby, so you basically have that crowd that goes here, especially to the Block Party. Families tend to stick to the parade, then go home after.

The white girls came in all shapes, sizes, and beauty. There were legit hot women there with nice breasts and barely a bra in sight. Talking nice and fit bodies and legs. And of course, you had the chubby ones out, too.

Then you have the hispanic girls. They can't compete with the white girls, but I saw a couple that had a nice body with a bit of thickness. But majority of them are what you expect from the south.

And then there were the black women. As a brother myself, it is a sad state of affairs. The women are not getting better. Majority of them were fat. Any that were not or actually skinny were instead marked with tons of tattoos. To put insight, the black crowd travel up from South Dallas to Greenville to partake in the events. They come for the parade, but they also go to the Block Party. Before I left, a bunch of blacks took over a 7 Eleven blasting the typical hip hoppity music. But even when I looked over there, there was barely an attractive black woman in sight. And if she existed, she kept far away from there. I did see a couple of nice looking black girls. One belonged to a tall white guy and the other was walking with her equally hot white friends.

As far as social dynamics, it's pretty easy to talk to both men and women there. Though I'm getting to the age where I'm starting to realize how empty people feel doing all this. Like there's no passion in their partying. They're just doing it out of tradition or cause they are bored or their friends dragged them there. Tough to figure out which it is. Likely all of the above.

Anyway, going back out this evening to meet up with friends. It's one of those holidays where people have excuses to get drunk and be a little loose. But it's no easier for any guy looking to hook up since most women are in groups or has at least one friend. And the crowd activity makes it tough for any guy to try to go for some action when everyone else may be judging him.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So the white girls are where it’s at huh? Nothing wrong with that :rofl:

Good ish. Nice to hear that Dallas is a good time.
 

HaleyBaron

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So the white girls are where it’s at huh? Nothing wrong with that :rofl:

Good ish. Nice to hear that Dallas is a good time.
Dallas is fine, but I can't help but feel a lot of fakeness in the city. Perhaps it is also the same or even worse in cities like New York. And I definitely felt something similar in LA and SF.

But yes, white girls are the top pick in Dallas for a reason. You may also run into some middle eastern girls, too, or east europeans since Dallas is one of the international hotspots of the US. But don't expect them to be easily obtained. Most of them are there or being escorted likely by those with pull and money. No other reason girls like that would suffer the southern heat.
 

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Dallas is fine, but I can't help but feel a lot of fakeness in the city. Perhaps it is also the same or even worse in cities like New York. And I definitely felt something similar in LA and SF.

But yes, white girls are the top pick in Dallas for a reason. You may also run into some middle eastern girls, too, or east europeans since Dallas is one of the international hotspots of the US. But don't expect them to be easily obtained. Most of them are there or being escorted likely by those with pull and money. No other reason girls like that would suffer the southern heat.
Gotcha, so you’ve got to be ready for them to have some attitudes. Any luck gaming out there?
 

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Gotcha, so you’ve got to be ready for them to have some attitudes. Any luck gaming out there?
I don't actively game since I am currently busy with a personal project of mines. But hot women react positively with me, which is a major change from fifteen years ago when I was just a lanky guy with little sexy presence. At most, I would have been called handsome by some church woman or an older lady. Now I get even young high school girls trying to flirt with me, and it's rather unsettling sometimes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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