"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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St Louis, Mo area

PRW63

Master Don Juan
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Location
Illinois within driving distance of St Louis, Mo
From the ILL side of the river but use the western "burbs" of the St Louis area for my social life.

Most think I'm educated, sometimes I can even act professional.
I would say I have my **** together, but I don't have much ****.
Lower end of the income scale.
Age should show under the thumbnail, but I'm near retirement age if I shoot for the minimum age.

I always appreciate meeting guys with a similar social world view, and I see the world through an RP lens. But I am not interested in a Wingman. The concept seems juvenile and I don't want anyone's help. I'm not into PUA, and not on the "edge of my seat" trying to get laid. I do things my own way with my own timing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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