"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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St Louis, Mo area

PRW63

Master Don Juan
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Age
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Location
Illinois within driving distance of St Louis, Mo
From the ILL side of the river but use the western "burbs" of the St Louis area for my social life.

Most think I'm educated, sometimes I can even act professional.
I would say I have my **** together, but I don't have much ****.
Lower end of the income scale.
Age should show under the thumbnail, but I'm near retirement age if I shoot for the minimum age.

I always appreciate meeting guys with a similar social world view, and I see the world through an RP lens. But I am not interested in a Wingman. The concept seems juvenile and I don't want anyone's help. I'm not into PUA, and not on the "edge of my seat" trying to get laid. I do things my own way with my own timing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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