I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
As low as possible.hope7 said:Go as low as possible, or just when my thighs are parrellel to the ground?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Prove it, please?TyTe`EyEs said:"Ass to the grass" isn't that great on the knees, especially when you start getting heavy.
I'm speaking from personal experience. It might have something to do with that sharp shooting pain I get. Or maybe it was what that big guy was saying.mrRuckus said:Prove it, please?
Or did you just hear that from some "big guy" in the gym?
Quote from Freddy at:1.) Anyone who tells you Oly squats are bad for the knees is a certifiable moron. The knee is at its most disadvantaged and dangerous possition at parallel. By squatting to parallel, you stop and reverse the movement RIGHT at its most fragile point. THIS is very dangerous, which is why parallel squats should only be done by competitive powerlifters. Squatting past parallel is much safer, as you reverse the movement deep in the hole, where your knee is pretty damn stable.
2.) Generally, if volume/frequency isn't the issue, its a form issue. How are you squatting? Are you sure your form is correct? What kind of footwear are you wearing? Whats your stance? We can talk about this more in depth if you'd like.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That's just a general rule. Everybody's squat is different though. Try to sit back with your hips more. Hips should move first, then knees.kickureface said:someone told me, knee shouldn't go past the toe. so how would you do squats to the ground with this?
Try different stances and sitting back more.DrSassyPants said:Am I the only one who lacks the flexibility to go farther than parallel?
Most doctors I've spoken with readily admit to knowing little about physiology. My education regarding the human body and it's components was not nearly as intense or long lasting as that done by medical practitioners, but the focus is on different areas.Hockey Playa said:dont go 90 degrees, its bad on your knees Scrapes away at it, doctor told me
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.