"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Squats at home, by yourself?

wolf116

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Ok I don't like the Gym because I can focus better at home, and it's cheaper. I have a bench and chinup bar. So I can do all my exercises except squats.

Dose anyone do squats at home? I can clean or jerk (or whatever it's called) small weights onto my sholders. But I could never get 120kg's onto my sholders. Can I just hold massive dumbells by my side? I might look into getting a squat rack. I think it will be expensive tho. Maybe I'll buy a welder and make my own.

Ok this is going to be hard to explain but... What if I got rope (about 1m long, the height from my sholders to the ground when I'm at the bottom of my squat). tied it from the bar to the weight. Then the weight would only activeate after 1m! Wow I just though of that while typeing this. I'm going to try it then get back to you.

picture: _________ <-bar
. . . .. . |. . . . . . | <-rope
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. . . . . .( ) . . . . ( ) <-weight. Ignor the dots. It wouldent work without them
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wolf116

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Ok, so i discovered hack squats. will try them.

Or I could just get to tables to lift off from.
 

Vintovka

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If you know how to weld you could try to rig something with some scrap steel. There's a difference between just sticking metal together and making a joint that won't fail under load when welding though.

I tried the hack squat route too, but it was too uncomfortable for me, finally gave in and went to the campus gym.

At first it was just going to be for leg day so I could squat properly, I go for every workout now, really worth it to me to have the right equipment.
 

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I bought an adjustable power rack off of ebay for 400 bucks. Works great since I don't have a spotter.
 
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