"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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napoleon

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Did you notice that if you don't shave for a day or 2 your jaw becomes squarer! Also a question-if you cut up does your face cut up also?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eternal

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Moved to Health and Fitness.
 

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1. facial hair can have those effects on your jaw; however, i'm trying to shave as much as possible just now since it raises your testosterone levels apparently - i read it in pook's jerk thread.

2. yes, cutting up will reduce the fat on your face, but serious cutting is required if you want to see any difference

one thing that puzzles me however is what happens to your skin after you cut. i have seriously stretchy skin at the moment (people have told me that's cuz i must have been fat once - only as a baby) and it's a right ba$tard because being skinny means you should have a defined jawline: i have no jawline unless i lift my head up to the sky.
 

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Originally posted by gav
1. facial hair can have those effects on your jaw; however, i'm trying to shave as much as possible just now since it raises your testosterone levels apparently - i read it in pook's jerk thread.
Hmm..Id like to hear the logical reasoning behind this..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think Johnny boy is a little confused. Shaving more is a result of higher testosterone levels, not a cause. More accurately, Pook says: working out leads to higher testosterone which leads to more facial hair and then more shaving, unless you want to look like Mountainman Hillbilly from Deliverance.

Silly man. Read more carefully, or you might end up hitting a girl in the face while yelling "NEG" 'cause you wanted to knock her off her pedestal.
 

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Originally posted by j_kat_251
Silly man. Read more carefully, or you might end up hitting a girl in the face while yelling "NEG" 'cause you wanted to knock her off her pedestal.
Neg hit!!!
 

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gav you are one funny guy.

arent you the guy who kept questioning whether some mysterious "brown sauce," who noone knew what the hell you were talking about, having some caloric affect??
 

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heh

1. it doesn't actually make your jaw squarer. it can make it look squarer.

2. fine; i've always wanted to believe that though
 

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People usuallly shave according to how fast their facial hair grows.. and how much they want on their face

... i dont see what testosterone has to do with this? its not like u workout and ur like "OH GOD I HAVE THE URGE.. no, not the URGE TO HERBAL.. THE URGE TO SHAVE" .........
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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