"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spring Break = no working out

SamoJednom

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Hi all, title says it all. Been while since I visited my family and I intend to do that during my spring break in 1 week. So what am wondering now is how is this going to affect my lifting.

I have been working out since January 30th and this will be my first time taking a break from lifting. Are there going to be any bad effects of skipping 3 workouts???

At home I got a max amount of 90lbs of weights and two 25lbs barbells. Can I do anything with this to just continue building some muscle?

I do intened to keep eating strong 1.5- 2x bodyweight in protein... do some cardio and what not maybe... push ups, crunches, will this be enough?

All advice welcomed except flaming :D!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Redux

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You can overreach before going and take a good rest. Or man up, read Dinosaur Training and lift some logs, anvils, barrells and stuff.
 

Warboss Alex

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3 workouts... 3 workouts.. good grief, you will fade away to nothing and the past ten weeks hard work will be undone. How about spending time with your family, eating what you want and not being so obssessive compulsive? Relax man, the break will do you good.
 

SamoJednom

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Thanks a lot everyone.

Was not really obsessing with it Alex :). But will take your advice and just relax for the week hehe. Ahhh yes good old home cooking from Serbia yum yum.

The good thing about our cooking is we eat tons of meat like beef, pork, some chicken and fish but yeah mostly beef and pork haha :). So no problem for protein intake..

Thanks a lot once again for your input guys Thread can be Considered Closed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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