"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Spring Break Analysis

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Well well just got back from spring break and it was a good time i met a good amount of girls and did pretty well gaming the girls i already knew

In saying that there are still thing I need to work on and your advice would be appreciated.

- I get AMOG'd more than I'd like I need to take control of the situation and be the leader

- Keeping confidence at a stable level some nights I was feeling like a 4 some nights a 9.5

- Kino I think I have a problem of Overkinoing?

- Having girls find me attractive before I spit game so body language etc.

- Last but not least I thought I was good at having conversations but i could improve.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, if you're getting AMOG'd that just means other guys see you as a threat, so that means you're on the right track. Just be witty. Learn to tool other guys without looking like you're fighting over the girl. When talking to a girl and a guy's chiming in try to block you, just keep talking like you never heard him. After you're done saying whatever you were saying to the chick glance at him and say "What was that" or "That's cool man". In the tone of someone that's trying to kill a conversation with someone. Eventually the guy will feel left out/socially-awkward enough that he removes himself.

- You really can't be uber confident all the time. Expect it to vary, just don't let it swing back and forth pendulum-style. I've never met anyone who's 100% 24/7

- If you're over doing kino, chances are you're just progressing too fast. If you get a feeling you are just take it back to a level you know she's comfortable with. Calibrate kino to the girls reactions.

-Dress well, maintain personal hygiene, smile. Use confident body language, probably all kinds of threads on that (not to mention books). Basically eliminate nervous behavior, move at a relaxed pace, don't slump your shoulders, stand up straight, look people in the eye, take up space with your body, etc.

-Best way to get better at convo is to just go do it. It's like riding a bike, you make get a few bumps and bruises at first, but after you learn how it's a skill you'll never forget. Be observent. Learn to be witty and quick on your feet. Try to avoid just yes/no questions. For that matter try to not rely on questions, talk to people like you would talk to a friend or someone you already know. A good conversation shouldn't feel like an interrogation.

Hope this helps.
 
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