Spring Break Analysis

[TheDon72]

Well well just got back from spring break and it was a good time i met a good amount of girls and did pretty well gaming the girls i already knew

In saying that there are still thing I need to work on and your advice would be appreciated.

- I get AMOG'd more than I'd like I need to take control of the situation and be the leader

- Keeping confidence at a stable level some nights I was feeling like a 4 some nights a 9.5

- Kino I think I have a problem of Overkinoing?

- Having girls find me attractive before I spit game so body language etc.

- Last but not least I thought I was good at having conversations but i could improve.

 

[BlakeW5]

Well, if you're getting AMOG'd that just means other guys see you as a threat, so that means you're on the right track. Just be witty. Learn to tool other guys without looking like you're fighting over the girl. When talking to a girl and a guy's chiming in try to block you, just keep talking like you never heard him. After you're done saying whatever you were saying to the chick glance at him and say "What was that" or "That's cool man". In the tone of someone that's trying to kill a conversation with someone. Eventually the guy will feel left out/socially-awkward enough that he removes himself.

- You really can't be uber confident all the time. Expect it to vary, just don't let it swing back and forth pendulum-style. I've never met anyone who's 100% 24/7

- If you're over doing kino, chances are you're just progressing too fast. If you get a feeling you are just take it back to a level you know she's comfortable with. Calibrate kino to the girls reactions.

-Dress well, maintain personal hygiene, smile. Use confident body language, probably all kinds of threads on that (not to mention books). Basically eliminate nervous behavior, move at a relaxed pace, don't slump your shoulders, stand up straight, look people in the eye, take up space with your body, etc.

-Best way to get better at convo is to just go do it. It's like riding a bike, you make get a few bumps and bruises at first, but after you learn how it's a skill you'll never forget. Be observent. Learn to be witty and quick on your feet. Try to avoid just yes/no questions. For that matter try to not rely on questions, talk to people like you would talk to a friend or someone you already know. A good conversation shouldn't feel like an interrogation.

Hope this helps.

 

[TheDon72]

thanks a lot man ill take your advice