"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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As short as possible:


I'm in the library computer at school reading spiritfingers' blog. Then one of the teachers logs in as an administrator. There is an option where she could see everyones' screen. Then she says, "Vulture, what are you reading?" I ignored her, erased the history, cookies, cache, and everything possible, then I logged off, and asked her questions about AFS club, to distract her. As I'm leaving she says, "AFS club is next week, o and stay out of trouble."


What a B*tch. That was totally an invasion of privacy. I could have been reading an important e-mail and then she goes and reads private info.

Anyway, I'm a little worried that sosuave is going to spread, because she saw the website and everything. I hope she doesn't search the site or anything right now.
What a day...:confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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:crackup:who cares bro, it's not like your gona try your game on her :crackup:
 

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She doesn't give a sh*t about what you were reading. All she cares about is whether or not you were doing something wrong.

Forget about it.

~Vibe~
 

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I just don't want to have the possibility that more guys will become DJs because of me. Why would we want more DJs?
 

spider_007

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Originally posted by Vulture
Why would we want more DJs?
to save our selvs, and the whole male kind:confused:

i was actually thinking of making buisness cards with notting but the website address oh them and giving them out to phatethic loosers in bars.

haw many billions of people are on this planed?

there are only 18 200 member to sosuave.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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there is no reason to not want more DJs in the field (unless you're afraid of competition). I'd much rather have DJs out in society than a bunch of guys who masterbate all day and are afraid of their own shadows.
 

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Well I for one think that your teacher might enjoy some of the posts and comments :p. You never know maybe she is a DJ as well ^^. And besides is not like she is going to bust your balls for reading advice on women? There is nothing wrong with learning new things :p... but the real question remains... Is your teacher hot?

Ne way keep rockin' guys
 

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non DJs are the reason alot of these girls are turning bisexual or lesbian.
I wish my friends were djs so they wouldn't be yelling out of my car window "hey....hey girl can I come home with you?" its funny for a while but I mean damn.
 

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there is no reason to not want more DJs in the field (unless you're afraid of competition). I'd much rather have DJs out in society than a bunch of guys who masterbate all day and are afraid of their own shadows.
like 17600 of the 18200 members here!


spread the love of SS :)

and the other betterment sites
 

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Yeah. Is she hot?

Wishing to keep DJ a secret and establish elitism strikes me as a feminine impulse. Why should anyone want to keep the AFC's out there in the dark? It's an unconstructive attitude.

Would you not help your friends? AFCdom is a malaise and injustice that affects most men, and you owe it to them all to help them out of it, or you can hand your manhood in at the desk.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by spider_007

i was actually thinking of making buisness cards with notting but the website address oh them and giving them out to phatethic loosers in bars.
And have more crap on this site?


If we are going to have AFCs on this site I would much rather have those who made the effort to change their lives and set out to find this site. At least they have the motivation to change.

I don't want AFCs here who are just given everything. They have no motivation or appreciation for it.

If they are going to change they need to have the will and desire to change. If they went and search for this site, that's the first step which shows that they have a desire to change.
 
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