"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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spider_007

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when somebody asks you to spot then (when lifting weights) do you even encurage them (not scream). or do you just shut up, and watch for signs that they can't do it.....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I usually ask them how many their gonna try to do. When they struggle I usually push them to complete their goal.
 

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I encourage them when they are faltering.

If they start moving the bar very slowly, i get my hands ready.

When they are unable to move the bar, i *quickly* put my hands underneath the bar, and very slightly help them. I increase the help if they still cant lift the bar.
 
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