"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Spooning - Getting or Giving

Eachy Peachy

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It considered more conventional (and alpha) for the guy to spoon the girl.

My dilema is that love getting spooned by my girl, does this maske me any less of a man?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JoeMarron

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Gay as fk! A true alpha wraps his girl in his arms providing safety and security from the cold cruel world.
 

plate's_empty

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Eachy Peachy said:
My dilema is that love getting spooned by my girl, does this maske me any less of a man?
If she's wearing a strap on it does.
 

pdx1138

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I got spooned by my ex a few times. Her landing strip tickled my ass.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bokanovsky

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Eachy Peachy said:
It considered more conventional (and alpha) for the guy to spoon the girl.

My dilema is that love getting spooned by my girl, does this maske me any less of a man?
Yes, it shows that you are a latent homosexual.
 

Fly By Night

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Do what you want, when you do things just to look alpha it just shows you're insecure, which is a beta trait.


I watched a long ass movie with a girl and we switched spoon positions* because my front was getting hot. She said she thought it was "reverse" but I just told her "it doesn't really matter." And she was cool with it. She didn't start treating me like a beta after that.

*Although it wasn't a real spoon, it was sitting on the couch with your legs open and someone sits in between. You get to feel up her legs in this position :up:
 

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plate's_empty said:
If she's wearing a strap on it does.
That's what I don't get, they're both the same. Woman in control = guy in submission.


Bokanovsky said:
Yes, it shows that you are a latent homosexual.
It wasn't a question of Homosexuality, It was a question on if letting your woman spoon you would manifest into large problems later on in the relationship. Sorry, prob didn't make my self clear in the initial post.

You let her spoon you once, next your on a dog leash begging for biscuits!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is op a fag or something, I cant believe he asked that question to be honest.
 
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