"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Spooning - Getting or Giving

Eachy Peachy

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It considered more conventional (and alpha) for the guy to spoon the girl.

My dilema is that love getting spooned by my girl, does this maske me any less of a man?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JoeMarron

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Gay as fk! A true alpha wraps his girl in his arms providing safety and security from the cold cruel world.
 

plate's_empty

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Eachy Peachy said:
My dilema is that love getting spooned by my girl, does this maske me any less of a man?
If she's wearing a strap on it does.
 

pdx1138

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I got spooned by my ex a few times. Her landing strip tickled my ass.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bokanovsky

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Eachy Peachy said:
It considered more conventional (and alpha) for the guy to spoon the girl.

My dilema is that love getting spooned by my girl, does this maske me any less of a man?
Yes, it shows that you are a latent homosexual.
 

Fly By Night

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Do what you want, when you do things just to look alpha it just shows you're insecure, which is a beta trait.


I watched a long ass movie with a girl and we switched spoon positions* because my front was getting hot. She said she thought it was "reverse" but I just told her "it doesn't really matter." And she was cool with it. She didn't start treating me like a beta after that.

*Although it wasn't a real spoon, it was sitting on the couch with your legs open and someone sits in between. You get to feel up her legs in this position :up:
 

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plate's_empty said:
If she's wearing a strap on it does.
That's what I don't get, they're both the same. Woman in control = guy in submission.


Bokanovsky said:
Yes, it shows that you are a latent homosexual.
It wasn't a question of Homosexuality, It was a question on if letting your woman spoon you would manifest into large problems later on in the relationship. Sorry, prob didn't make my self clear in the initial post.

You let her spoon you once, next your on a dog leash begging for biscuits!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is op a fag or something, I cant believe he asked that question to be honest.
 
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