"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Infern0

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Dude i havent spoke to in ohh.. must he 10 years, messaged me on facebook asking for girl advice.

His posts below:

Well you have a few options, I'm currently taking the friendship route because this girl has a boyfriend but it is always a good option to build up trust, this girl called me one of her best friends last night and promised to always be there for me after only 4 weeks

And

To me it is a positive because she is in a relationship and I won't break that up, she is a nice lass but being called her best friend and that she talks about me to her family, friends and boyfriend about me must make him feel worried but I'm already in her head and he doesn't do **** other than play computer games





I have my work cut out here
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AFC's and white knights, are not ready to be unplugged:

 
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Dude i havent spoke to in ohh.. must he 10 years, messaged me on facebook asking for girl advice.

His posts below:

Well you have a few options, I'm currently taking the friendship route because this girl has a boyfriend but it is always a good option to build up trust, this girl called me one of her best friends last night and promised to always be there for me after only 4 weeks

And

To me it is a positive because she is in a relationship and I won't break that up, she is a nice lass but being called her best friend and that she talks about me to her family, friends and boyfriend about me must make him feel worried but I'm already in her head and he doesn't do **** other than play computer games





I have my work cut out here
Baring in mind that he knows she is taken, if he approached her with direct interest and let her decide whether or not to reciprocate with her interest then that would be fair game in my opinion, but the fact that he is putting indirect groundwork in to a taken woman that has zero romantic interest in him is a sleeze bag move in my opinion. And yea it probably wont work. Just sayin.
 
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