"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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spliting pain in the head + push ups

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today when i was doing regular push ups after 25 push ups i got this sevear pain in back of my head, i count do anything. its like some one hit me in the back of my head with a baseball bat. this happened once before. any one knows what this is or why is it happening???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Try breathing in and out 3 or 4 times down and 3 or 4 times up depending on the speed of the pushup.

Don't do the standard 1 breathe in on the way down 1 breathe out on way up.

Other options general blood pressure problem, neck injury, nerve damage, brain tumour.
 
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