DJ Hawtness
Don Juan
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You're right. There is no reason for you to have a split personality, just be an outgoing guy.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Split Personality, this has helped me more than anything.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Personality suicide? Are you crazy? What happens when you find a flaw in the new personality you created? You're gonna tear down again?Originally posted by Virtú
What if I want to change who I am instead of just pretending to be someone else?
Personally, I don't want to have to bother with keeping up appearances, with having to spend time and effort maintaining a facade or remembering which personality I used with which girl.
My character flaws go way deeper than not being able to pick up chicks, so I've got more to gain by big deep fundamental change.
Remodeling isn't enough; I feel that I have to tear down, redesign, and rebuild from the foundation up.
How about taking care of the personality you already have instead of just creating a new alter-ego? Nah, let's just pretend that we all are Tyler Durden.
Yeah, he ****s the way you wanna ****, talks the way you wanna talk, lives in your dream world, and well, except from that he’s after all just a creation of Chuck Palahniuk, and no, for you kids who still lives in Fight club – Tyler doesn’t exist in real life...
… but nah, forget about that too!
Meanwhile, you can try forgetting about your own real personality also. Because, compared with Tyler you’re nothing, right? Yeah, that’s definitely what Tyler would do, isn’t it?
Now, I got an even better idea! Let’s start a fight club too, and, yeah, let’s blow up your apartment and fight your boss. Hit rock bottom, and don’t forget that self-improvement is masturbation. Damn kids, grow the **** up. Nah, don’t, instead; stay at sosuave.net and pretend that you’re a self-destructive Brad Pitt look-alike.
Okay, I think you get the idea. But, for all you Fight club-fans out there, I’ll refer to the book, movie or what you prefer to call your lifestyle:
You're not your job.
You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive.
You're not the contents of your wallet.
And no, you’re NOT TYLER DURDEN!
Okay, feel free to do whatever you want. Pretend that you're someone else if it works out for you and you get your phone numbers and hot girls. But, don't forget, pretending that you're someone else will never lead you to happiness in the long-run.
Thanks.
Yeah, he ****s the way you wanna ****, talks the way you wanna talk, lives in your dream world, and well, except from that he’s after all just a creation of Chuck Palahniuk, and no, for you kids who still lives in Fight club – Tyler doesn’t exist in real life...
… but nah, forget about that too!
Meanwhile, you can try forgetting about your own real personality also. Because, compared with Tyler you’re nothing, right? Yeah, that’s definitely what Tyler would do, isn’t it?
Now, I got an even better idea! Let’s start a fight club too, and, yeah, let’s blow up your apartment and fight your boss. Hit rock bottom, and don’t forget that self-improvement is masturbation. Damn kids, grow the **** up. Nah, don’t, instead; stay at sosuave.net and pretend that you’re a self-destructive Brad Pitt look-alike.
Okay, I think you get the idea. But, for all you Fight club-fans out there, I’ll refer to the book, movie or what you prefer to call your lifestyle:
You're not your job.
You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive.
You're not the contents of your wallet.
And no, you’re NOT TYLER DURDEN!
Okay, feel free to do whatever you want. Pretend that you're someone else if it works out for you and you get your phone numbers and hot girls. But, don't forget, pretending that you're someone else will never lead you to happiness in the long-run.
Thanks.
You say that like it's possible.Originally posted by DjDreamer
Personality suicide? Are you crazy?
I am what is standing in my way, so I am what needs to be removed from the picture.
It seems to me like it would be the perfect solution: get rid of everything that's wrong with me in one fell swoop, then create a personality ideally suited for success.
If I've done it before, then I should be able to do it again ... and it may even be easier the second time.What happens when you find a flaw in the new personality you created? You're gonna tear down again?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.