DJ Hawtness
Don Juan
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You're right. There is no reason for you to have a split personality, just be an outgoing guy.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Split Personality, this has helped me more than anything.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Personality suicide? Are you crazy? What happens when you find a flaw in the new personality you created? You're gonna tear down again?Originally posted by Virtú
What if I want to change who I am instead of just pretending to be someone else?
Personally, I don't want to have to bother with keeping up appearances, with having to spend time and effort maintaining a facade or remembering which personality I used with which girl.
My character flaws go way deeper than not being able to pick up chicks, so I've got more to gain by big deep fundamental change.
Remodeling isn't enough; I feel that I have to tear down, redesign, and rebuild from the foundation up.
How about taking care of the personality you already have instead of just creating a new alter-ego? Nah, let's just pretend that we all are Tyler Durden.
Yeah, he ****s the way you wanna ****, talks the way you wanna talk, lives in your dream world, and well, except from that he’s after all just a creation of Chuck Palahniuk, and no, for you kids who still lives in Fight club – Tyler doesn’t exist in real life...
… but nah, forget about that too!
Meanwhile, you can try forgetting about your own real personality also. Because, compared with Tyler you’re nothing, right? Yeah, that’s definitely what Tyler would do, isn’t it?
Now, I got an even better idea! Let’s start a fight club too, and, yeah, let’s blow up your apartment and fight your boss. Hit rock bottom, and don’t forget that self-improvement is masturbation. Damn kids, grow the **** up. Nah, don’t, instead; stay at sosuave.net and pretend that you’re a self-destructive Brad Pitt look-alike.
Okay, I think you get the idea. But, for all you Fight club-fans out there, I’ll refer to the book, movie or what you prefer to call your lifestyle:
You're not your job.
You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive.
You're not the contents of your wallet.
And no, you’re NOT TYLER DURDEN!
Okay, feel free to do whatever you want. Pretend that you're someone else if it works out for you and you get your phone numbers and hot girls. But, don't forget, pretending that you're someone else will never lead you to happiness in the long-run.
Thanks.
Yeah, he ****s the way you wanna ****, talks the way you wanna talk, lives in your dream world, and well, except from that he’s after all just a creation of Chuck Palahniuk, and no, for you kids who still lives in Fight club – Tyler doesn’t exist in real life...
… but nah, forget about that too!
Meanwhile, you can try forgetting about your own real personality also. Because, compared with Tyler you’re nothing, right? Yeah, that’s definitely what Tyler would do, isn’t it?
Now, I got an even better idea! Let’s start a fight club too, and, yeah, let’s blow up your apartment and fight your boss. Hit rock bottom, and don’t forget that self-improvement is masturbation. Damn kids, grow the **** up. Nah, don’t, instead; stay at sosuave.net and pretend that you’re a self-destructive Brad Pitt look-alike.
Okay, I think you get the idea. But, for all you Fight club-fans out there, I’ll refer to the book, movie or what you prefer to call your lifestyle:
You're not your job.
You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive.
You're not the contents of your wallet.
And no, you’re NOT TYLER DURDEN!
Okay, feel free to do whatever you want. Pretend that you're someone else if it works out for you and you get your phone numbers and hot girls. But, don't forget, pretending that you're someone else will never lead you to happiness in the long-run.
Thanks.
You say that like it's possible.Originally posted by DjDreamer
Personality suicide? Are you crazy?
I am what is standing in my way, so I am what needs to be removed from the picture.
It seems to me like it would be the perfect solution: get rid of everything that's wrong with me in one fell swoop, then create a personality ideally suited for success.
If I've done it before, then I should be able to do it again ... and it may even be easier the second time.What happens when you find a flaw in the new personality you created? You're gonna tear down again?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.