“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I started working at a electronics store ( I am not going to say the name ) but

lets jut said it ends with shack , any how. I meet people there everyday ,we

have this policy , whenever a costumer walks in , we have to greet them

within the 1st 20 seconds they enter the store. but my real question is , lately

, because of the holiday seasons, many chicks have walked in looking for gifts

, for their BF's or paying their cell phone bills, / buying cell phone , and I am

having a bit of a problem , with openers, I know my work place has the

perfect set up for a good opener, * asking them questions about products

they might be looking for . but I end up talking too much about what I am

selling them instead of getting their phone numbers.

because of this, I have missed many opportunities to meet new women , also

my store is next to a women's boutique ,kinda like a wet seal / forever 21

type of store . so many hot chicks pass by and go inside .

I have never worked in a sales driven environment , I never have problems approaching at party's / clubs. or even women at the mall .

I just don't know why? I am having this problem at this new job of mine, I want to be bagging these girls that walk by .

any pointers ad tips are welcomed .

thanks for your time .
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lush

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It's my general opinion to not **** where you eat. That is all.
 

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Hitting on customers seems like it could be just as dangerous as coworkers. If a customer complains, you'll be almost guaranteed to lose your job.
 

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It's a fine line. I used to work at FCUK when I lived in Chicago. Our manager want us to flirt (non-sexually of course) with our customers. So I'd be over flattering the women and at the same time selling them more crap that they didn't need ("Hey this dress would really bring out your eyes"). It was a cool job, I just wish I had been on SS back then, probably would have been really awesome at my job.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't think it's bad to "spit game" at work as long as you realize that you are at work and don't go over board. Like I am not sure if I would go for a number unless she seemed really interested in you and if you did I would make it real casual so she doesn't get creeped out. I work at Panera Bread part time and I am always being friendly with the cute girls that come in, you just have to know how to read them and remember to keep working.
 

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Pff don't listen to these replies.

"Spit game" (??why do you call it that ??) as much as you want at work. Just be really friendly, and lay off a tiny bit more than if you were out somewhere. If you feel a spark between someone, then go for it.

Unless you are a creep and only "Spit game" at chicks to sleep with them, and you are a social friendly person in general....You will not get any complaints. Infact it will IMPROVE Your position at your job. People will like you, and if you find a chick on the way then its a bonus.

I work a retail job and I'm friendly to almost everyone that comes in, and I always meet new people and make new friends. It's great. It is a good place to practice your social skills.
 
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I like all of your replies... fellow dj's .

thanks for the big tips * unlimited and jaggs, and unflushables .

I think , I am going to start doing my "spitting game on breaks or on lunch ".

I see were u guys are coming from .

your tips have enlightened me .

actually I am not the relationship type ...

I get bored pretty easy , I am a very social person .

so I guess I just have to learn how to read them a lil better .

thank u all .
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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