"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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spitting game at work

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I started working at a electronics store ( I am not going to say the name ) but

lets jut said it ends with shack , any how. I meet people there everyday ,we

have this policy , whenever a costumer walks in , we have to greet them

within the 1st 20 seconds they enter the store. but my real question is , lately

, because of the holiday seasons, many chicks have walked in looking for gifts

, for their BF's or paying their cell phone bills, / buying cell phone , and I am

having a bit of a problem , with openers, I know my work place has the

perfect set up for a good opener, * asking them questions about products

they might be looking for . but I end up talking too much about what I am

selling them instead of getting their phone numbers.

because of this, I have missed many opportunities to meet new women , also

my store is next to a women's boutique ,kinda like a wet seal / forever 21

type of store . so many hot chicks pass by and go inside .

I have never worked in a sales driven environment , I never have problems approaching at party's / clubs. or even women at the mall .

I just don't know why? I am having this problem at this new job of mine, I want to be bagging these girls that walk by .

any pointers ad tips are welcomed .

thanks for your time .
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lush

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It's my general opinion to not **** where you eat. That is all.
 

goodfoot

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Hitting on customers seems like it could be just as dangerous as coworkers. If a customer complains, you'll be almost guaranteed to lose your job.
 

theunflushables

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It's a fine line. I used to work at FCUK when I lived in Chicago. Our manager want us to flirt (non-sexually of course) with our customers. So I'd be over flattering the women and at the same time selling them more crap that they didn't need ("Hey this dress would really bring out your eyes"). It was a cool job, I just wish I had been on SS back then, probably would have been really awesome at my job.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Unl1m1t3d

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I don't think it's bad to "spit game" at work as long as you realize that you are at work and don't go over board. Like I am not sure if I would go for a number unless she seemed really interested in you and if you did I would make it real casual so she doesn't get creeped out. I work at Panera Bread part time and I am always being friendly with the cute girls that come in, you just have to know how to read them and remember to keep working.
 

Jaggs

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Pff don't listen to these replies.

"Spit game" (??why do you call it that ??) as much as you want at work. Just be really friendly, and lay off a tiny bit more than if you were out somewhere. If you feel a spark between someone, then go for it.

Unless you are a creep and only "Spit game" at chicks to sleep with them, and you are a social friendly person in general....You will not get any complaints. Infact it will IMPROVE Your position at your job. People will like you, and if you find a chick on the way then its a bonus.

I work a retail job and I'm friendly to almost everyone that comes in, and I always meet new people and make new friends. It's great. It is a good place to practice your social skills.
 
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I like all of your replies... fellow dj's .

thanks for the big tips * unlimited and jaggs, and unflushables .

I think , I am going to start doing my "spitting game on breaks or on lunch ".

I see were u guys are coming from .

your tips have enlightened me .

actually I am not the relationship type ...

I get bored pretty easy , I am a very social person .

so I guess I just have to learn how to read them a lil better .

thank u all .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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